The Idealist Merchant

To err is human! All of us are quite aware about this quote and even use it often. Many to hide imperfection and others not to move on with mistakes, often state it. But why we the humans fail to understand we all make mistakes and they are very much part of our struggles as well as judgement that turn into experiences. Why do we make our imperfections and mistakes a big taboo? This form of our poor-decision making tend to become our destiny if we don’t realize that all we need to do is change, revise or renew out method or think pattern. It is in favour for us to accept one simple fact that we can learn a lot from our mistakes everything expect one thing which is with obvious reason making mistakes again. Ad hence, there is no escaping from it. One should not transform an imperfection or mistake into a mark of failure. The real art is not moving on with mistake but change the step towards right understanding. What we perceive as an imperfection in us is actually a gi...

The Difference between Falling and Flying is Aspiration! Aspiration means a hope or ambition of achieving something. One should find freedom in what they intending to be. In life people confuse themselves over one prime goal and then realizing that it’s not what they have been drilling for. If, we had one option among satisfaction, happiness, love, or wealth – what that will be?   You need a thinking beyond that routine or to-do list. Our aspirations are guided by our inspiration. One has to keep in mind that our focus takes us to places we wish or aspire to be, it determines our reality. Energy and power that you get from focus will excite you. At times in life we need an additional push to follow our dreams. What you want to do and can do is limitation of what you dream. Aspire higher to accomplish excellence in what you do. It is normal to aspire for growth. Approach each day as new opportunity to step ahead towards what you aspire. There is an old Chinese proverb ...

It is strange how people keep holding the pieces of the past while waiting for future? One day while having conversation with a friend about one of his childhood photographs a word cloaked in my mind – Nostalgia. That sentimental longing or regretful affection of past which people often associate with fabled, and rosy painted time they feel can’t enjoy anymore. It is difficult to understand that why people look at their future with doubt and grief of moving on instead of walking with confidence to be in happier place than they were. The past is a time frame of learning and thereafter letting go. You can’t always stay there, it disappears. In entire lifetime we leave traces of ourselves in various moments which are worthwhile. That’s amazing how a rose from book or an old photograph stop your rushing life into slow and sweet ride to down the memory lane. Remembrance or Walk to Memory Lane must restore possibility to that earlier period, possibility of making all of it happ...

Woods are Lovely Dark & Deep, but I have Promises to Keep And Miles to Go Before I Sleep And Miles to Go Before I Sleep! These lines of Robert Frost Poem have become everyday statement of my many friends. It depicts situation of a person wanting to stay in forest to enjoy and admire its beauty but hesitates and leaves because have family waiting for him at other corner. Hence, decides to go forth and move on. My thought for the day is that whether actually the duties or responsibilities are so burdensome or we have made them so. I mean do you set a routine of activities just to saddle yourself or because you find it worthy of time. Why not to do something which makes you happy? Keeping outcome in mind is important; disappointment of any unwanted task will automatically get eradicated as you are looking at a big and greater picture. When was the last time you opened your favorite book or watched football and jumped on sofa because your favorite team had won! When was l...

The "Three Ps" of Effective Time Management Planning. Priorities. Procrastination  To that limited, and scarce resource called TIME. You need time to get what you want out of life. One can accomplish more with less effort once sorted with time. We have to understand that we need to learn the technique which will direct your work or personal life instead of merely managing the time. A greater self-awareness of how currently you use your time is vital. To make the best use of time follow these simpler rules - Decide that not everything can be accommodated in same time, Let Go - resist that temptation to do small, insignificant tasks too well, and outsource what you can. Time has two division of which one is clock and another is compass. The clock means your commitments, appointments, goals and schedules while the compass which signifies vision, values , principles and directions. The former states what we do and how we manage our time while the later is what we feel...

Towards the phase of different thought processes! These thoughts are whether to be righteous or do righteous. That same old school concept of what is bigger? Everyone among us have our own share of these dilemma stories. All of us wish to be unconventional or differently unique but how many of us can? We question ourselves on what we did wrong or what did missed out at? Were we not being the righteous on path we wished to follow? Too many questions with one simple answer – Persistence! The fact of continuing in an opinion or course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition you face. As I always say "Earn Jealousy and Walk with Pride" - you know that accepting your originality and flaws solve 90% of your problems. Being perfectly average is neutral and normal. The phase "I Don't Know" is a clarity of thought and should be unobjectionable. We all have somewhere come cross the phase that success is not easy but have we ever debated why? Simpler to ...

To all things that are bright and beautiful ... To all creatures that become great or small ... What if these things and creatures were emotions and battle of thoughts? The phrases that we learnt through out our lives in form of nursery rhymes or life lessons from Internet has always tried to teach us a small fact lesser known. It taught us to stay in quality, it taught us that  Creator's intention ever inevitably bright and beautiful.    We, humans today has left no stone upturned to disturb and destroy Creator's World. I don't wish to repeat the same "Human = Evil" story but want each one of us to realize that life is borne bright and beautiful... Like the rhyme! We just have to walk it; Less Complex & Lesser Chaotic with ourselves.      Nothing is impossible but not everything is to be completed in a today's timeline. Learn to give space and time to what comes your way in empathetic manner. All of raw, inimical, and negative v...